I'll start:
Personally, i have a 4 stage system (captive purity).
1) I screw the intake line directly to the faucet in my laundry room (put cold on high and a drop of hot till i feel the water coming out at room temperature).
2) It then flows through a 1 micron sediment filter.
3) from there is flows to a 0.5 micron carbon block.
4) it then flows to the RO membrane (75 gpd)
5) lastly it flows through the DI cartridge
6) waste water goes back into the sink, and RO/DI water into a Brute garbage can used as a reservoir (i fill up water jugs from here and carry the water up to my tank and water cooler).
I have a flush valve that i run for about 20 seconds every now and then that basically restricts the clean water output and forces the water to flow over the membrane faster and 'rinse' it.
i change the sediment filter when i notice decreased flow rates.
i change the carbon filter when i see it clogged (orange).
the DI is supposedly supposed to change color when exhausted, i never
saw it change color, but changed it after one year as well as the RO membrane.
my tap water tests at ~45 TDS and my RO/DI tests at ~1 TDS.