The problem with letting the apex control the pH with Kalk is your
Alk & Ca are going to fluctuate.
I think most would agree it is better to have your pH fluctuate or low and have stable Alk & Ca.
What I did was figured out what my evaporation was per day (which is in between a little over a gal and a gal and a half ) then I dose one gal of kalk spread out over a 24 hour period and my ATO fills in the extra evaporation if needed.
This way your not adding to much water to the tank and my Alk & Ca are stable.
That got my pH to around 7.9 then I was able to add the scrubber to boost it up over 8.
IMOP it sounds like your pulling you hair out over something that is not alll that bad?
The pH falls way below 7.9. It dropped to 7.7 and that's what started all this. I lost my beautiful GARF Bonsi, appleberry monti, ponape birdsnet, setosa monti and all the coraline algae disintigrated when it got that low.
Buffers don't work, good water flow doesn't work, ample Alk, Ca and Mg doesn't work, hooking the scrubber up to the skimmer doesn't work, hooking it up to a little un-enclosed air pump doesn't work and I can't dose enough kalk per day without exceeding the evaporation rate.
I'm really at a loss. The only thing left I can think of is to get a bigger pump, seal it in a Tupperware box, and push air from outside through the scrubber and into the tank via an air stone. Even if that works, what is that going to do to the temp of the tank come winter?
What's got me even more worried is that this likely has been a problem ever since I moved into this apartment 2 years ago, and the only thing keeping from happening sooner was that all the aragonite sand was new. I have a very deep sandbed for my blue dot jawfish and the thought of trying to replace it is sickening.