Steve your issue here is understanding the nutrient balance. Lighting intensity/duration, alkalinity, and nutrients are part of this balance.
1) Determining your nutrient level.
I do this with a glance of a tank. Tanks kind of get a sterile look in an ULNS. Acros usually faded/pastel. Water is super clear with little di
atom growth. Coraline also tends to fade in color. Remember I am talking "ULTRA" low nutrient. Most of us don't have this unless we overdid it with GFO, carbon sources, or low bioload with little feeding. This also happens more frequently in BB systems due to their efficiency at removing organics, and lack of organic storing areas.
-Testkits obviously.
Unfortunately you can take your po4 reading with a grain of salt at low levels. Nitrates are a good indicator, but just because you have detectable or elevated no3, doesn't mean that your po4 is not stripped from GFO
-Diatom growth
This is a great indicator. If it takes you more than 3 days to see some diatom on the glass, this is indicative of an ULNS. I've experienced and have seen systems that go almost a week with no diatom growth, and yes they were most definitely ULN
In the end ULN is just a term that was drummed up on the reef boards. IMO this is not a healthy way to run a reef and should not be a goal for any of us, even SPS guys.
2) Lighting
Very simple. The lower the nutrient level is in the reef, the less light your corals will tolerate / need to become photo-saturated. Think of the zoox inside the coral as sunscreen. The browner it is, the more light it will need to show color and calcify. Do not confuse brown with a tan color that SPS get when they are partially bleached.
example of the low nutrient tan would be this tricolor in my tank. I originally gave it too much light. Once they get this color it takes a while to get the correct colors back. I've seen entire tanks looks like this.
IMG_8443 by
rich.colombo, on Flickr
3) Alkalinity
This is a really overemphasized parameter IMO. People put too much thought and blame on ALK. In general the cleaner your tank is the closer to natural seawater levels that you want to be. In a true ULN tank your ALK should be pretty low. I would keep it in the 7's (DKH). Like I said, most of us are not ULN and will benefit from a higher lever from 8.5-10DKH. Heck, back in the day when we all had dirty tanks, it was common to run DKH 11-12DKH sometimes more. Unless you are running an obviously stripped tank my advice would be to play it safe. I like 9DKH as a standard level. This is where I run my heavily fed, low nutrient tank (Not ULN

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Steve, last time I
saw your tank it had the stripped look. I know you were running GFO and not feeding much with few fish. How have things changed since then? Maybe post some current pics. What's not looking right?