The point of my article is not to blame customers or complain. As noted in the disclaimer at the beginning of the article, there are many other factors we do not have control over, such as online sales. The one thing we CAN control, however, is what is considered to be acceptable behavior when dealing with a small business. Unless there is a significant change in our collective attitudes as customers, the local fish store as we know it is destined to go the way of Blockbuster video. That is the point of the article. Stop being an entitled brat or all the LFS are going to go out of business. That is all.
Oh, and we all feel bad for the lonely guy. But we are running a business and can't spend the man hours required to entertain him without livestock suffering. There is a difference between participating in LFS culture and just wasting LFS time. The particular guy I was writing about in the article happens to be a self-professed opiate addict and stares at women's chests when he speaks to them. We have had to ask him to refrain from chatting with customers when they complained about his creepiness. It is a touchy subject, and this time-waster comes in many forms and varying degrees. Even the LFS employees have their favorite time wasters and will spend time just chatting with them to get a break. I do it. But honestly, I am more willing to chat up the guys who are actually spending money. The relationship can not be one sided, it must be reciprocal. There is a time and place to get emotional help when needed, the LFS isn't it.