I know the idea of an anemone is what got alot of people in this hobby, but the reality of owning one is bleek. Anemones other than BTA's do not survive in captivaty and to purchase this eye candy is just depleteing its natural habitat. Anemones live for a couple hundered years in the ocean, but I wouldn't give it 4 months in most tanks, exspecialy a new tank that is not established.
Another point to concider, you want sponges and anemones. Anemones, require alot of light and water flow, sponges require low lighting and a lower water flow.
Also to better answer your question, you need to decsribe your tank set-up. NOT to blast you, but anemones are left better off in the sea.
HARPO