First of all, heating water to get better output from RO is a waste of energy unless you are using solar heat. This "improvement" was mentioned several times, and I hope that this method was never popularized without note about the cost of electricity.
Sorry about my rant. Bact to your questions.... it is still a good idea to get a pressure gauge, since it will be very useful to trouble shoot your plumbing if you ever run into issue. With lowered pressure, it will give you lower output, and you will notice more frequent need for pre filters change due to larger amount of processed water (RO+brine) with same amount of RO water.
The faucet attachment is pretty easy to fine. Most RO filter seller will have it too, maybe you can order it with the filter if you have not got it already. You can also find the attachment in hardware store, but can be more difficult to find.