I have seen them eat snails, knock over stuff, rip each other out of their shells, and other mischevious behaviour. I don't buy them anymore, but I still have one or two.
They are kind of cute, but I don't think they do much for the trouble they can cause in a reef tank. I might have them in a Fish only tank that had a lot of food scraps.
I agree the true scarlet hermits are the most docile, but you have to know what they look like, there are a lot of "red" hermits out there that are terrors.