noel,,, your just going to have to come out and see for yourself what this is all about.
Honestly, I was a very introverted individual. I found myself staying home most of the week and barely going out. That was when I said things have to change and my group of friends did not help me explore new things.
Like I said their "fun night" consisted of going out getting wasted and bringing a few girls along. That does not fly with me. I needed change I needed option and choice. I need a plentiful and abundant life where I can choose who I want to be with.
Being that I conquered that anxiety with women, just approaching many many random groups of both mixed girls and guys, to be DEAD honest, Girls have said that my social skills now rank on a 9.5 out of 10. For me initially starting off i would have given myself a 4.
My presentation skills are at their highest level 10. My ability to communicate is now a 10.
This has not just impacted my personal life with speaking with women, It has made me more comfortable at work in public and all areas of my life.
Communicating is a life skill, not only will it help with your personal life but all throughout.
These coaches went through this experience. Its so difficult to explain to you what exactly goes on and the psychology of the interaction.
I will give you a taste.
When I go up to a random group, Either they **** test me saying FU*K off we're having a serious conversation.
This is to kick out the losers obviously. I would tell them exactly this: WOW this girl is like one of those mean girls from high school. Where did you find this girl, let me guess off the street?
I'm completely honest and frank and myself when I speak. I dont give a crap about what they think. Yes initially I add value and get the group engaged. I'm animated and energetic and they WANT to speak with me.
I add emotional spikes in the conversation by telling them about me. For example:
I volunteer at a big brothers group in NYC.
Something I would tell the girls is this and this is actually what happened:
I was watching the adam sandler movie i cant remember the name but it was with a boy that was adopted. It was like i dont know do you remember? Oh yea it was like Big daddy or something like that. And there was that scene where adam sandler and the kid were wizzing on the wall. So my little guy asks me ... What are they doing? And I said uh... dont worry about it, and i was cracking up when he asked me why havent we done that?
When going into a conversation with a women there are many things to look for.
These are called indic
ators of interest.
For example: you enter a group and you initiate a conversation. If they are interested in whta you have to say considering you give perfect smooth body language, tonality, volume, animated energy, etc etc all traits of an alpha male. You lead the conversation and you are not outcome seeking.
Girls internally have this circuitry installed without thinking they will do one of the following or a combination and in multiples:
They will
1) flick their hair , play with their hair, curl it behind their ear
2) they will touch or scratch their arm or hand
3) they will touch their face
4) they will reinitiate conversation
5) when you hold their hand and squeeze they will squeeze back or when you give them a high five they clasp their hand inside yours.
There are many ways that girls show interest without them even knowing. And understanding these very extremely subtle mental and physicalities is what makes me more socially aware than women.
Figure for example a women fairly good looking say like an 8 out of 10, i dont usually rate women but in this case I will.
Each and everyday the woman when she goes out, guys attempt and miserably fail at trying to pick this girl up. The amount of social intuition and acuity these girls have for example the girl has been approached about 10 times that day, Then make that a week (70 approaches from guys) then make that a month, then make that a year, then make that their entire life.
Guys do not get approached, i'm sorry thats just how life is, guys have to be the leader and take what they want.
Therefore, girls have SOCIAL physical and mental X-RAY vision. Compared to girls we're completely screwed.
I have learned so much the first day it is ridiculous.
I have gotten so good that I can approach a random group on the street, get them to go ridiculous, I can get them to have emotional spikes and feel good and feel bad if I were to leave the conversation. I can make them emotionally invested in the conversation, all while I escalate. I'm not going to talk about escalation but thats just the tip of the iceberg.
I have grown so much this month alone.
I honestly dont care about what people say for example in this post. I'm trying to offer value to those who may be interested in seeing something that they DID NOT know existed. I'm no longer outcome seeking. I dont care what happens. I'm the type of person now that does and leads. I dont wait for other people to make decisions for me to tag along. I dont care whta they do.
My complete mindset has changed my life and i have never felt better.
You ask that if these coaches are the real deal? and if this entire thing is real... You have to come out yourself and see what its all about..
So anybody who is interested, there is a free seminar and you guys should all go
Its saturday from 1-3pm about on july 18th.
And as I had said before. I will give you a demonstration witha group I meet off the street.
My entire purpose of getting into this was because I want to experience becomming a social being and having girls and options to whom I want to be with and when. I dont want to be tied down I want to live this life of abundance. And with the mindset of being the chooser and not the choosee.
I hope i've explained myself I am happy to do this and I wish other people would take advantage and see what they thought is impossible is actually Possible.
