blue hula":2yma3uvr said:How flattering Mike - I single handedly hounded John off the board?
Wow! Talk about taking things out of context!
Jessica, I have never said, nor tried in the slightest to imply, that you hounded John off the board. I'm sorry that you took it that way- I will do my best to make things clearer next time.
When asked why I thought he never responded to you, I simply said that I didn't really know, but that perhaps the timeline was such that at the point John started getting fed up and stopped posting, you were just starting the more difficult questions. It was a stab at a guess, a possible explanation, that is all. Hell, I don't condone the fact that he never responded to you. Your questions were appropriate and well reasoned.
In the early days, I didn't ask John questions out of the blue. All of my initial contributions and questions were in response to HIS posts. So the expectation of a response .. well i call it "discussion" and I think it is a reasonable expectation. I believe I previously referred to it as the "you show me yours, I'll show you mine" game. Apparently we were actually playing "i'm taking my ball and going home".
One possible explanation for sure, but it may not be the correct one.
There are times when the middle road is the wrong path.
Sure is seeming like a lot of people are bothered by my centrist tone at the moment... I'm not sure it is 'the wrong path' or not. Is it wrong for me to try to change MAC's mind about this forum, and to try to encourage them to participate once again?
Regards.
Mike Kirda