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aaron23

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and i wish i could show everybody else what this is all about.

andrew come see what this is... it is completely based on that book and mainly the mystery method more specifically love systems
 

asianer

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dude, i read the book - i could have written it myself, although i admit there are definitely some interesting aspects which i have incorporated into my repertoire already :flirt:. but i would love to go out into the field with you and observe how far you've come along :inlove:

and i wish i could show everybody else what this is all about.

andrew come see what this is... it is completely based on that book and mainly the mystery method more specifically love systems
 

CHEMCHEF

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Didn't you post about this once already like 5-6 weeks ago.
Why didn't you just add to that thread???
I remember Beacause This Was my Post

I would rather shoot myself in the Sausage than sit through something like this.
PS. Dont DRINK THE KOOL AID

:And still feel the same way
 

asianer

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:biglaugh: i would say that shooting ones own sausage would constitute a slight dislike for something. LMAOOOO

Didn't you post about this once already like 5-6 weeks ago.
Why didn't you just add to that thread???
I remember Beacause This Was my Post

I would rather shoot myself in the Sausage than sit through something like this.
PS. Dont DRINK THE KOOL AID

:And still feel the same way
 

aaron23

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Didn't you post about this once already like 5-6 weeks ago.
Why didn't you just add to that thread???
I remember Beacause This Was my Post

I would rather shoot myself in the Sausage than sit through something like this.
PS. Dont DRINK THE KOOL AID

:And still feel the same way

your outlook on life is fantastic, i'm sure both men and women are drawn to your presence. Keep it up your doing good.
 

sambo

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A better seminar would be how to get laid every day and not end up married with children. Case in point: Me. DAMMIT ALL I WANTED WAS A LITTLE GENITAL RUBBING AND NOW LOOK. sorry... but soon you'll learn that meeting women isn't the tough part........ After a while one will get her hooks in you FOR LIFE. LMAO You're better off staying home oggleing your reef tank! Trust me on this!
 

CHEMCHEF

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Hey big guy.
The part about shooting myself in the sausage, was in response to a guy that jokingly call this thing a "sausage seminar" in the last useless thread about this Jim Jones seminar nonsense.


:biglaugh: i would say that shooting ones own sausage would constitute a slight dislike for something. LMAOOOO
 

CHEMCHEF

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And as for you aaron with 16 A's. Because thats cooler than one A.

I have never had a problem geting Women to like me. It's a fairly pedestrian undertaking. I also have never had any problem meeting peolple in general (That I wind up being freinds with)
YOU young man, are the one going to a seminar to learn social graces
I also have been married to the same woman for Many years.

So I am doing good.

your outlook on life is fantastic, i'm sure both men and women are drawn to your presence. Keep it up your doing good.
 

nanoreefer22

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your outlook on life is fantastic, i'm sure both men and women are drawn to your presence. Keep it up your doing good.

I'd rather shoot myself as well. And guess what you people are drawn to me.

Aaron, you're very taken up in this stuff its scary. I can understand wanting to be a more social person and all that good stuff, but it seems like someones selling you on it and now you're trying to become that salesman. No offense, but you seem like you drank too much of the kool-aid at these things.

Telling someone its alright to flirt with other chicks while you're with one, kinda a$shole-ish don't ya think? Saying the stress of this and this is good, ehh maybe thats why you're not with your girl of 3 years any more :( Just pisses me off when people say ignorant things.

Again no offense intended but its just annoying to see you trying to push your beliefs in this "lifestyle" and really you do come off as thinking all other ways are wrong. Seems like someones brainwashing you just a little. If you want that I :bunnies: this chick I :bunnies: that chick, just be a tool its a lot easier and you get the same thing from it.

I don't usually respond to this stuff but dude you were cool and now you seem like a cult leader :eek: Just sad I guess. But do what you makes you happy.
 

aaron23

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Im not trying to push anything on to anybody. Lets get that clear and out in the air.

Im sharing my experiences with others and telling them what and how my life has changed. The possibilities are endless. Im no cult leader im no preacher. I'm not gaining a thing from doing this. Im not saying change your beliefs or change the way you are. If things are going good keep it up im not here to tell you what to do or how to act. You are in a very good relationship Kris, and i see that. Be who you are and dont let anybody change that. What I tried to say is there is no harm in speaking to women and people in general. I didnt say make out i didnt say get into another relationship. Theres no harm in talking to other women or people in general.

Chemchef: congrats, i'm very happy for you that you are married and fulfilled. Something like this would not interest you i see that, You are gifted and im in awe with your ability to leave your comfort zone like I have to embrace new people and experiences.

Psychology and social dynamics work in ways we have never truly understood. I'm out to learn that process.

All in all my entire point and perspective is, go out there and meet people become social and live the life that you want to live. thats my bottom line that i would like to show others who are interested.
 

aaron23

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Kris, im very glad your completely honest, i'm a playful person, and things i say online may be taken in a completely different way. I'm not serious when I say screw around, things are taken differently than I actually want them to be, and thats whats so difficult in trying to express your feelings and ideas on a forum post. You have these guys saying bogus you have guys making fun of sausages its fantastic. You cant get this anywhere.

I love you guys, im not here to tell you what to do or what to change, i'm telling you my life has changed and i'm very blessed, and that you might be interested in where i've found this new found passion that has benefited my life in more ways then just personal, work, etc all around life.
 
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JHOV2324

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kris you r young and in love.. flirting while in a relationship is totally normal...its a part of being a Man/horndog....and having multiple partners is also fine and does not make you a tool...this you will see as you age as well as your relationship...but i do wish you and your girl last forever that too would be a wonderful thing......
 

fernandokng

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Good job Aaron, keep it going man. My assumption here is that you're doing it because you believe in this, and not because you're trying to make money out of this. :)

Sometimes in life people will just try to put bubble gum under your shoes - don't let that get to you.

It is clear from many of the posts here, especially when none of these guys have been through the seminar, already have a pre-conception on how things are. Worse, is that they think they are already "too good for this". It amazes me all the assumptions that people make to make their conclusions.

Regardless, it would be refreshing sometimes for people to actually reserve their opinion until they themselves have sat through that position. When people never been through your situation, or understand your perspective, where you've come from, the internal battles you've fought, they will resort to judging. But that is life, and everyone can do what they want.

At the end of the day, that will limit growth as a human being. But who cares, as long as you're growing and opening up your mind to new opportunities, that takes courage; the will to take those core values and beliefs that you have held so dearly and for so long, and allow them be transformed by the ideas of another.

Anyway good luck with this endevour, and I hope you learn a lot from people and this experience.
 
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sambo

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I just go up to them and say "Do you wash your clothes with windex because i can see myself in your pants!" and that usually gets a good response with tension and everything its awesome
 

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