Here are my thoughts -
It really doesn't matter how many anemones you add to the tank, because the fish will of course ultimately decide where and if they want to host. I have two anemones, and they ignore one and like the other. The chances of having two mated pairs in two anemones is pretty slim, given the chances of fighting, natural death, death from stress/shock, etc. This depends, of course, on what kind of clowns you want. If we're talking ocellaris, they are social animals, and will try to form a family. But, as I said, it's all up to the female. If she doesn't want anyone else in her anemone, that's that.
As for putting four fish in and seeing what happens, yes, it's a risk. But there's not really a better way to give them all equal footing and equal access to the anemones. They establish dominance very quickly.
The other thing I was going to say is that trying to use LPS corals as clownfish hosts is inherently ri
sky. Even if the fish isn't stung and is able to acclimate, many of the polyps are so irritated by the presence of the fish that they pull in and don't get the light they need, and die. Seen it happen. And there's a good chance that the clown could be seriously hurt by an LPS, as they are not instinctively or genetically geared toward hosting clowns.
Overall, I would say, in my experience, use ocellaris or perculas, and get as many of them as you can/want. At least three or four more than you want. They are attracted to long tentacles, so that's usually better than, say, a carpet anemone. Give them time, and let them play out their own acclimation. If you want to go with less sociable clowns, like tom
atoes, maroons, or others, get a large and a small clown at the same time. Chances are, the large one is the female and the small is still a juvenile male. Yes, they will probably fight. You may lose the male and have to introduce more of them until you find one that the female accepts. Costly, but necessary. This is what I've found in my research and my personal experience. Hope that helps. Good luck!
Oh, BTW, about tank size, you're right...bigger is always better. But if it's just the clowns, then 30g is fine. Keeping stable water conditions for anemones and/or corals is the problem there, though. YOu'll have to pay close attention and test pretty often.
Sara