Yes, she has hosted the anemone for a year. The anemone was about 18'' accross and now it is about 8'' accross. I have been working on the tank to try to get it to open with no avil, but I have been noticing that she sucks the tenticles in and holds them in her mouth for a while, then spits them out.
these are the anemones in each tank, I know that the tanks sizes could give the illusion of the size and maybe a little , but this is the size difference.