A few steps:
1) Use RODI water, if not using currently (check after a length of time with a TDS meter to make sure its doing its job
2) Start doing some serious water changes, possibly a 25% to begin with, and keep these at a high frequency till you manually deplete of phosphates
3) Get a phosphate reactor, with Rowaphos or phosban or another phosphate absorbing media that wont seep back into water
4) Make sure you Skimmer is Kicking A%$! If not see used equipment add and get one that can manage your livestock water volume.
4) Put some macroalge in your sump, to assist the other methods in reducing phos and nitrates (Controversial, but I personally have found luck with it)
BTW I believe Kent sponge says only to use for a cpl days because it starts leaking phos back in water so, maybe change to one of the easier ones that lasts a cpl months