Laurenbabe,
Another female here! Welcome to MR. I joined about 7 months ago and aquired my first reef tank during that time. It is over whelming to sift thru all of the comments, books, and desires to own a tank asap.
Have you ever owned a fish tank? I had a FW planted tank befor I got into the reef tank, so I had a little clue of what kind of effort it takes on a regular basis.
Come to the frag swap on April 15. Find a nice person to talk to and grill them about what they need to do- weekly -to keep the tank happy. And really decide if thats what you want to be doing. Other kinds of fish tanks require less demands on your time. (if you stay on this forum long enouph you'll notice that a lot of people get into a tank, 6 months later they are selling it all because they dont have time). Also the WAY you set up a tank can effect how much time it takes. --for instance if my tank did not have an
auto top off, then I would need to add a gallon and a half of water to it every day-which means I would have not been able to leave for the weekend without having someone take care of the tank.
You have not mentioned how much you are willing to spend.
Fish tanks not for girls??? Ridiculous. but, I am lucky I have a husband who can lift heavy things for me if I need it. Lifting is the only limiting thing I find. But I feel that way about most things.
I recommend going to someone like Tim Aquatics - Or Tristan - Nice professional guys on this forum- pay him to set up the tank for you (with new or used stuff), just they way you want it. And then you have a professional who knows exactly how your is set up and can do emergency calls to help you when things go wronge. They can advise you on what equipement to get- so it takes the guessing game, rip-offs and bad advice out of the picture.
Sarah