the 3 hydrometers are used on different systems for convience, and are definately, 100%, faster and easier to use than 1 refractometer.Refractometers save time. You can easily and far more accurately test your water with a refractometer in a fraction of the time it takes you to fill 3 hydrometers.
You can't calibrate a hydrometer with a refractometer because hydrometers are more susceptible to temperature effecting the readings...
Using a refractometer to calibrate your hydrometer isn't giving you any better of an idea of what your levels are if you aren't taking the proper steps to correct the hydro.
IMO (non-scientist) if the reading is done 'correctly' on the reflactometer...then the 'calibration' of the hydrometer would be 'dead on'. Since the tanks are basically the same temp. at all times, future readings would be within an 'acceptable' testing range (for the month between re-calibrating).