dizzy":dp23h8zv said:Also hiding who we really are can be very damaging when the truth is discovered. If you don't believe me just look at the mess over there. Better I think to be up front about who we are and what our experiences are. I've had experiences with dozens and dozens of the same species in the twenty years I've been in the business. How does that not qualify me to have an opinion that is at least equal to someone who has kept maybe one or two individuals of a certain species? I don't understand how owning a local fish store makes you unqualified to have an honest opinion.
Mitch
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I'm getting sick to death of political correctness.
I think you've missed my point (though I understand yours.)
I don't deny being a LFS operator.
I choose to participate on certain forums as a hobbyist for the enjoyment of it. It is known by many, on the forum I frequent, who I am and what I do. It's just that I don't want to talk business. It takes away from enjoyment of the forum and it can be TOS violation. If asked about my job I answer but I do not push my wares or flaunt my 'credentials.' If asked specific questions related to my store or my experiences with vendors , suppliers , wholesalers ,...etc I answer those via e-mail or PM. It's not that I'm ashamed to answer in public it is just they are my experiences and opinions and not necessarily facts. I do not want to cast a negative reflection on someones livelihood without irrefutable fact and even when I feel I have those facts I still would probably keep them to myself and 'voice' my displeasure via an absence of endorsement.
My PM box is filled enough ,by those who know, with questions that would not normally be asked of me if I were just Joe Hobbyist. If I touted the fact of who I was and what I did it would probably be much worse and be a lot less enjoyable for me. My feelings about being in certain forums as a hobbyist and not a LFS operator or so strong that I've turned down offers to have some of my aquariums as TOTM for certain sites as I felt my business gave me a unfair advantage over certain hobbyists. I know TOTM is not a contest but it is viewed by many as just that very thing.
I get enough of the business at work. Sometimes I just want to only be a hobbyist.
Now as to this forum on this board.
I've chosen to limit my involvement to a passive role but it's not because I'm ashamed of being a LFS operator.
What I feel and what I do is neither the right way or the wrong way , it's just my way.