Do You pay all the bill?

[E.intheC]

I just can't imagine what will happen after they get marry if that day comes. The girl will probalby keep all his money and give him $50 allowance monthly and he has to work like a cow....hehehhe.

A guy I used to work with had an allowance from his wife. Not kidding. :thrash:

 

[kkaz642]

My girlfriend moved in with me after 1 year of dating you split everything down the middle, but when you get extra $ don't tell her just say that some really cool guy on thease boards was nice anuff to give you a fish,light,or some rock,coral or take about 30 off of what you really paid they don't know what you paid unless You tell them!!


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[JHOV2324]

It would depend on two things, how good of a cook are you and how many menage a trois she are you suppling monthly to pay all the bills in full :theyareon

 

[chinatown]

s my d.

 

[fernandokng]

What does she have to trade?

 

[samksy]

What does she have to trade?

Lol! i wonder as well...lol!

It would depend on two things, how good of a cook are you and how many menage a trois she are you suppling monthly to pay all the bills in full :theyareon

I don't think my friend cook, not sure what you mean on the other one. I think he should just forget about this relationship, oh well...his decision, i am not gonna make that for him.

My girlfriend moved in with me after 1 year of dating you split everything down the middle, but when you get extra $ don't tell her just say that some really cool guy on thease boards was nice anuff to give you a fish,light,or some rock,coral or take about 30 off of what you really paid they don't know what you paid unless You tell them!!
He don't own a tank, he has no hobby that i know off.....maybe some other speical interest...kkakaka!!!

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A guy I used to work with had an allowance from his wife. Not kidding. :thrash:

That really sucks! It should be the other way around if you are working. :smash:

Sounds like this girl learned from someone, either a friend or a family member [maybe mother] and if so i would ditch the *#*$h. Investigate the roots!

Probably the scenario, but hay....they are not in that stage yet......too early. He's just wasting money and time i think on the relationship that's probably not gonna work out.

 

[Larissa]

Yeah... that's what you call a user. I was going to say if she's paying rent or mortgage, I could see her expecting to chip in by paying the other monthly bills rather than letting him live there free, but if she expects to be the leech, tell him to run.

 

[samksy]

Yeah... that's what you call a user. I was going to say if she's paying rent or mortgage, I could see her expecting to chip in by paying the other monthly bills rather than letting him live there free, but if she expects to be the leech, tell him to run.

I so agree with you. Looks like he made the right choice and that's to run!!!!

 

[cowfish]

Run Forrest run!!!

 

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[samksy]

Lol!!!!

Run Forrest run!!!

Unfortunately, he couldn't run fast enough, the girl caught up. I but i see it won't last too long.

 

[Wes]

If the one income isnt a problem financially I wouldn't care. But if she wants to be a housewife that means the house must be clean at all times and dinner ready when u get home from work.

If both parties work than the cooking/house duties get split equally.


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[tomtoothdoc]

this all depends on what stage of life he's in...not age but stage. another point of view.....does he think she's the one? in that case....bad idea. if he's leasing with an option to buy and if he can afford it, what the hell. don't you ever want to rent a ferrari even just for a day?(even if she may not be a ferrari but hey remember the one about the moped?....fun to ride but don't want to be seen on it???)
my apology to all female members out there, it may sound a bit sexist but us guys understand analogy much better when it involves cars/things with wheels.....lol.
samksy, don't tell him what to do.....it'll come back and bite you in the ass later on. be his friend and bite your tongue.

 

[samksy]

samksy, don't tell him what to do.....it'll come back and bite you in the ass later on. be his friend and bite your tongue.

That's what i'm afraid off, so i refuse to say dump the girl even though i wanted to say it so badly....lol!!! They are only in the dating stage...i think it's been around 2-3 years but what's ridiculous is he doesn't seem to know too much about the girl...like where she is, who she hang around with when she's not around....totally in the dark....i just find it supspicious. And my friend don't even know what he wants...he sometimes tells me, yeah she might be the girl, sometimes no.....and he only freaking calls me when the girl is not around...lol!!!

If the one income isnt a problem financially I wouldn't care. But if she wants to be a housewife that means the house must be clean at all times and dinner ready when u get home from work.

They are only dating, i mean if they are marry i guess that's fine, the girl could be a stay home housewife or something but it's not the case.

 

[Bob 1000]

First off, you never move in to you girlfriends place unless your broke.
Secondly, get a place together a new place..
third if they are serious enough to live together bills ahould be split..
Just My opinion though.. If things don't go well who wants to get kicked out,,lmao..

 

[cowfish]

Well, if he pays for everything and things don't work he can toss her out!

 

[Killerdrgn]

Well you see what your friend can do is tell her if he pays for everything then she's going to have to start doing "stuff" with his "friends" every night and maybe multiple times a night, with different "friends", if times are good. And these "friends" will be paying him to pay those house bills.
If not, then option D with a vengeance.
But to be honest I've tried to give one of my friends the same type of advice and they only grow to resent you afterwards. Let him learn from the school of hard knocks.