my wife says i pay more attention to the fish tank then i do to her,why cant women get their own hobbies?my tank keeps me from snapping :Up_to_som
There lies the crux of the matter. My wife goes from hating to tolerating to liking my pets, reef included. I get to keep everything in the basement but the tradeoff is I do the laundry ( which I dont mind ) but for some reason she still finds cause to come down and make comments like " I thought you were organizing down here!" Not like there is any reason for her to come down there. She has her hobbies which I always encourage but for some reason she rarely spends time on them and instead wastes time nagging me about mine. My father in law tried to explain to her that when men dont have hobbies, they go to war. Thats the trick to world peace.